Do you listen to other more than you tell?

i've just come tot he realisation that throughout my entire life, i've just been listening to people more than actually telling people about me. throughout highschool and even at home, people would be complaining to me and telling about their problems and i would genuinely listen, and find ways to help them, cheer them up etc. but when i start conversing to people about me and my problems, people call me a depressed guy, little *****, melodramatic, complains too much, got problems, needs to get over it or they jsut simply not listen at all. im sick of these people, so ever since my epiphany, i just stopped being listening to people. i now bear that 'not caring/ thats your problem attitude' and it wasnt by choice, it was gradual. i guess this isnt really much of a question. but can anyone relate? tell me your story. any advice on what i should do? anything would be great. thanks